Isn’t it interesting how quickly things turn from romantic love to absolutely hate? It seems like there’s such a fine line between adoring somebody and wishing that they would die.
Maybe this is a bit extreme, but you understand what I’m saying.
One day, you’re living with somebody and planning out an entire life with them, and the next day you feel sick when you think about seeing their face again. For me, relationships tend to end with a bang and a lot of bitter feelings. Personally, I don’t feel as much spite as my ex’s generally do. Maybe I’m just more forgiving than they are, or maybe it’s because I generally find some way to get one iota of revenge.It doesn’t have to be mean-spirited or extremely obvious, but I like to feel like I’m getting the final word. With my most recent ex, that has been fairly easy. When I left his house, I was never logged out of his smart thermostat. In fact, he probably doesn’t realize that I’m connected to the smart thermostat because I’m the one who set up with the temperature control device for him. Since I’ve never been kicked out of the HVAC program or air temperature settings, I like to use the convenient smart thermostat application for tiny acts of revenge. Every once in a while, when I think of something shitty that he did to me, I log into the smart thermostat and change the air temperature control settings. Maybe I crank up the heat in the middle of the night. Maybe I just alter the furnace control plan by a few degrees everyday. Or maybe I turn off the heater all the way. No matter what I choose to do, I always feel better knowing that he must be uncomfortable.
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