I am learning in life that patience is the name of the game.
The only thing I am impatient about is finding cherish again, but even that needs patience in itself.
I told myself I would dip out of the dating game for a whole year after my last breakup, and now it has been a year and four months and I need to allow myself to date again. I am a bit picky, even though I am also 55 years old and my dating pool has shrunk down to a puddle, so I may need to lower my standards; Heating, Ventilation, and A/C service keeps me on a slender schedule and I don’t have time to go to local businesses at evening to try and meet someone, nor do I want to go to bars to meet someone. I know I need to just focus on learning the language and everything will fall into place with meeting the right lady. I am working a lot at the Heating, Ventilation, and A/C contractor and don’t have a lot of time to look for someone, other than the patrons that come in each afternoon to buy a heat pump or smart temperature control. I am not in a rush to meet just anyone, so if I go another year without meeting the right lady after that I feel that is what I will have to do. This one Heating, Ventilation, and A/C professional who works for the modern contractor seems to like me despite the fact that she doesn’t speak any English, so I need to get on the ball and learn how to speak Spanish if I want to get someplace with her.